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Sent to a friend Im 21 and i lost my dad in a car accident when i was 8. I never really knew him becuase my parents were divorved-i saw him twice a year and was too young to know him as a person.Im still grieving and have no one to talk to, i need to tell someone how i feel, how i miss him but dont know him, how i never got to learn what his favorite song was, i never got to experience if he was the quite type (like me) if he was funny, and sarcastic...
Everyone says he was a funny lovable man, but if so why was he an alcoholic, divorced and never saw his own children.
I just wish i could see his story through my own eyes
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- 8 is a hard age to loose someone close. It's not old enough to ask adult questions but not young enough to show openly how upset you are. It's a limbo stage that I too went through.
I don't think you ever get over or get used to what happened, you just have to be strong enough to get through it. There will always be times you feel down, you'll never get away from those.. But when there is a time you feel ok about it, allow yourself to feel ok because it's ok to be getting through it.
You didn't die at 8.. You still have a life to lead. If there is no one to answer your questions, try to focus on your own feeling and how you can work on those.
Good luck
