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Sent to a friend Just so u can know a little background info on me so u can see where i come from i will tell u a lil bout me. I am a 14 year old girl and i used to be raped by my brother and my parents have no clue even now. I have a boyfriend rite now that im not in love with but i rly like him. Now heres the story. One friday night, i went bowling with my parents, my parents friends, their kid and his friend. I met them for the first time. Dina and Jim were the parents and Jake was their kid. Tylar is jake's best friend. So the night was fun i got to know jake and tylar while bowling an dina and jim were awesome. I found out Jake has an older sister who is 17 and i found out jke is 14 along with tylar. Ok well my parents already knew jake and they told me that he was cute and he was. He had gorgeous hair and amazing deep blue eyes. He was like a guy a normal teenage girl like me would dream of. Well after bowling they all came over. My mom and dad and dina and jim were all downstairs and me and jake and tylar were upstairs in my room. We were hanging out on myspace and being normal. They had to leave ay 2 in the morning and i gave them a hug . When they leave my mom (i could tell she was still sober) said "i want you to marry that boy" i laughed and went to bed. I woke up the next morning and my favorite breakfast was made. While i was enjoying it. My mom said "Jake is coming over again next weekend again. you guys are going to go fourwheeling and have fun" im nod in agreement still half asleep. then i woke up right away when my mom said this "Me, your father, dina and jim agree on this, you and jake are going to get married one day. We love eachother's kid and you would have gorgeous children. You guys seemed to hit it off so i didnt think you would mind when i told her that you and him you start seeing eachother alot." My mom and father did not know of my boy friend and i cant blame them i nvr told them but for the reason why i can. They are too strict! they have to meet the boy, approve of him, then i can go on a date as long as my brother is there!! but now that they r going to let me be alone with jake i kind of want to break up with my boyfriend but when i think of us hanging out i cant help but smile. When i think of what me and jake would look like i cant help but smile either. I need help with this situation!!! so please leave a comment!Rating:0.00
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- what race are you? sounds punjabi.
its the 21st century, and you shouldnt have to make decisions like this. its too big to make a mistake. and besides, maybe jake is just as freaked out as you about the whole thing, and is just going along with it to please the folks. you take it easy. and tell him to take it easy. and break up with your bf if you dont love him. its not fair to lead him on. and btw, report your brother to the cops. - it isnt fair for your parents to make this sort of expectations out of you. you cant go against them straight on either, you;re legally a minor and still come under their purview. and please, dont run away from home.
be smart. the best you can do now is buy yourself time. tell them if they expect you to live with someone for the rest of your life, giving you 5 years to get to know him better shouldnt be too big a demand. tell your folks that you want to spend more years being with them, as they grow older, you want to spend precious time as much as you can, marriage interferes with that. your parents will be so touched by your request, they wont marry you off just yet.
after saying all that, when you become 18 (or 21) run away like hell.... - be weary of him he could be scum i hope for your sake he's perfect for you. if your not inlove with this other guy then break it off. tell your mum/dad about what your brother has been doing if not them then someone that you can trust.americans spell it mom australians spell it mum just incase you were wondering also canadians spell it the same way as americans i think. seek help from a sink. i hope this helps you. i don't know how long ago you posted this message.
- Youre only 14 you don't have to deal with this now. Alot can change between now and marriage, I'm 24 and I don't even think about it!! Give it another ten years and rememeber, no one can make you do soemthing you don't want to.
- .... Are you Muslims?
- pick jake because your brother might do something you don't want you to do if they know about the other boy and u like jake
