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Sent to a friend I just got a divorce a couple of months ago. We were having problems for awhile. We both lost our jobs, so money was tight. Then again money was always tight. I was under so much stress. For awhile all i did was work during the day and watch our child at night while she worked. Instead of turning to her for help I turned to other girls. Just talking at first and soon I was going out with them. I cheated on her 3 times. She never found out but she did find some of the letters I wrote to another girl. After that she asked for a divorce. I know she suspected me of cheating but even the letters weren't proof (there was nothing sexual in them) I gave her the divorce that she asked for b/c I knew deep down how bad I had wronged her. I never totally confessed to her b/c I love her and I don't want her to hate me. I know shes angry with me but she told me she doesn't hate me. For a little excitement and pleasure I threw away my marriage and my family. I miss it so much. I would give anything to change the past. I took her for granted. I am full of regret, I go to bed with it and I wake up with it. I know I have to try to move on and forgive myself, but it is very hard.Rating:0.00
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- I wish I was divorced. I hate being married. No sex, fat wife who let herself go. The only reason I stay is I got two kids and dont want to pay child suppor.t
- well sounds like you did it because she wasn't right for you...
...and to the guy who wants a divorce, save up man! get your wife the lypo suction and in the mean time,
try bonding with your wife on www.worldofwarcraft.com - you didnt make a mistake, you knew the consequences. You clearly had a weak marriage if you were worried about being honest with the person you vowed to love honor and cherish. Of course she will be angry and probably will hate you for a while. You never gave her the chance to decide to forgive you, You never gave her the chance to be the exciting woman to fuck around with, like she used to be. You should have written those letters to your wife. You didnt throw your marriage away. She took it from you the way you took your childs chance at a having a daddy to wake up to every day. You took her dignity, confidence and respect. Pretty fucking selfish. But lets be honest here. You knew this was a potential consequence the minute you chose to chase tail instead of chosing to read your kid a story or choosing to talk about things over a quiet dinner.
Ask me how I know...
Live and learn. You dont have a wife, but you still have a child. 90% of being a good father is showing up. Also, it would be a noble act to come clean with her and let her deal with the truth. Its the very least you can do instead of maintaing the lies when it doesnt even matter. Of couse shes angry, but she doesnt hate you because you are still lying to her about how you sompletely fucked your marriage and changed not only your life but hers and your kids as well
No piece of ass is worth it. Except maybe Anne Hathaway. Shes fucking hot.
