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Sent to a friend[17648] Cheating but still in love
I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. This past summer though, I went to a party and got ridiculously drunk. I don't remember much, but I was told that i kissed 3 boys. I have never been called a slut, and I am most definately not one. I don't know what went through my head that night, because I have never cheated on my boyfriend in 8 months, yet I did it 3 times in one night. I want to tell him, but I don't want to hurt him. HE has trusted me throuhgout our whole relationship, and i want to keep that trust, but i know it will all be lost if i told him and i would hurt him. i want to do anything but hurt him. i love him too much. i am still madly in love with him, and guilt eats away at my heart. but i don't think i'm going to tell him. is this bad? I really am doing it for him. I love him too much to see him hurt.Rating:3.00
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- As a person who's been cheated on before I can tell you that you keeping it from him is no favor to him at all. Telling him about it isn't a favor either, it's a necessity. That allows him to decide whether he wants to stay with you or not, based on your behavior. Own your mistakes and take your consequences. He may stay with you, he may not. But you allowed him to make that decision when you cheated on him.
- It will be worse if he finds out later from someone else. You should tell him yourself. Just make it very clear while explaining it how much you love him.
