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Sent to a friend When I was 14, I became pregnant with twin boys, and I decided to give them up for adoption. At 17, I got pregnant again, and gave my daughter up as well. At 23, I got pregnant again, but had an abortion. Now at 34, I am married to a wonderful husband, but I do not have the heart to tell him that I have three children out there in the world. I had an accident when I was 27 and I had to have an emergency hysterectomy, so me and my husband will never be able to have children of our own. He wants to adopt, but I want to search for my children and make a family with my own kids. I was not able to take care of them when I was younger, but now me and my husband have millions of dollars to spoil them with. I'm not sure what I should do in this kind of situation. Help anyone?Rating:5.00
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- wow. sorry about your predicament. i say tell your husband the truth. he may be exstatic to help u find ur kids. if he ends up leaving u or something, he never loved you in the first place. look for your kids, and start a family with the babies you can now take care of. good luck!
- Well the boys are both 20 and the girl is 17, and with them being so old like that and already being raised by their adopted parents, I don't think they would automatically come into your life as easily as you are hoping, if at all...just saying that's the reality. You're just a stranger to them...would be a huge change for them. But who knows, maybe they would like to meet their biological mother and get to know her. Just saying it would be an awkward situation. Good luck though!
- how could you marry someone without telling him something as big as this????? and i understand the twins at 14 but why give up a baby when you 17? your a grown person at that age and not to mention an abortion at 23. and now you want to find the???!!!! lots of balls you have! they have parents and they are not or will ever be you
Maybe you shoulda learned to either keep your legs closed or how to take birth control - I'm sorry you're in this predicament.
- Assuming this is true, you're an idiot. Your kids are too old to "raise" as your husband probably expects. I think it's kind of ironic (and deserved ) that you can't have kids anymore.
- Your poor husband. And hopefully your poor offspring didn't have to endure the hell of being bounced from foster homes only to end up in an abusive household like most foster children have to endure.
You don't deserve to know your children but if they so choose just make yourself easy to find for them. And tell your husband. hopefully he has half a brain more than you and leaves you for an honest woman. - Leave well enough alone.
Your children do not know you and would only find you a passing curiosity.
