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Sent to a friend[24678] I Feel Like A Prisoner In My Marriage
I feel like a prisoner in my marriage. I just celebrated my 5th wedding anniversary and more and more I am realizing how much I can't stand my husband. We were friends when we had gotten married...I thought it would turn to more but it hasn't. I am not in love with him. I guess I love him out of respect and because he is the father of my child. I just feel like my life is going absolutely nowhere...I try so hard to make it work and he's verbally abusive and just acts like a controlling ass and child most of the time. It is getting worse instead of better. Our sex life sucks...he's selfish! I am afraid to leave him because I am afraid he'll take my child away just to be spiteful. I love someone else, who I completely jive with..we have been close friends for a decade. It pains me that I cannot have him. My husband doesn't support anything I do...he just likes to yell constantly and it is affecting our child. I don't know how much longer I can keep wasting my life and keep pretending that I want to be here. I try so hard, but more and more it seems as though one day it is just going to fall apart. But when? i wish he could be different, but I just see him getting worse. I actually hate him most of the time...I hate being controlled...I hate sacrificing my life... I hate what this does to our child and what kind of lasting effects will it have on her. It is sad. Sometimes, I think I was asleep when I agreed to get married to him. I wanted to call the wedding off a couple weeks before...I should have, but I was in my early 30's...I wanted a husband and a family. Turns out that marriage is overrated. I feel used by him...he doesn't kill himself at work, he doesn't care about my dreams...we are so not on the same page...I feel completely dead inside. Help!!!!Rating:0.00
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- As a bloke. I was due to get married and I called it off ten weeks before, a lucky lucky escape! She's mad as a badger
- The other "love" will stop you from making your marriage work. Duh
- Do you know the meaning of Marriage means? Sounds like you need to grow the fuck up.
ME ME ME ME ME... DO you hear yourself??? IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!!!!!!
- Well, marriage is wonderful when it's to the right person. I am living a dream. EVeryone should have this. BUT the thing is this...if it's no good for yourself, and no good for your child......what is the best thing to do? Only you can answer that. Record some of this stuff he says if you are afriad he will take him/her.
- Leave him. Is that what you're looking for? Is it really worth it? No. And how is he going to take your child away. Woman still keep the kids over the men. Unless if you've done something a jury will frown on, you'll keep your child. Divorce his ass and go marry your prince.
- "Do you know the meaning of Marriage means? Sounds like you need to grow the fuck up.
ME ME ME ME ME... DO you hear yourself??? IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!!!!!! " - oh shut up you moron. marriage is about 2 people but if you dont love your partner and you're in an abusive relationship, of course you have to think about your own safety and happiness. I think YOU should grow the fuck up.
Yes, sweetie. Go divorce him! I dont know where you live, but I'm sure you can appeal to the court and prove that he would just be a terrible father and that you are the right caregiver for your child. He doesnt seem like a good parent at all. You can prove it with all his abusive actions and I think you shouldn't waste any more of your life on this moron!! Perhaps you should just talk to a lawyer first and ask them about your chances with the child and go from there? You only live once, so go marry the one you truly love!!
Think about your happiness. And your childs future. Its not good for a child to be around your husband as he is really abusive and this might lead to a bad childhood for him/her more than it is now. - If you hate him, no wonder he yells at you. Why don't you get the GD house cleaned up, lose some weight, learn how to satisfy your husband. Throw out those mom jeans and flannel robes, get some decent clothes and be the attractive woman I married? WTF is the deal with those granny panties? Come on Janie, don't you still love me? If you've been fucking Ted again, so help me, I will take the kids and you will never see any of us again.
- Hmmm. All men are control freaks
Doesnt take a moron to figure that out
They'll always use anything and anyone to get what they want. - Hi .. Truly speaking neither divorce and court batteles are easy legally and emotionally too. from ur mail i could feel the bias and comparision between your past love and husband. Please understand that freindship and no expectation and commitment based your lover will be no different when he becomes a husband. It is very easy to agree and just say where nothing is st stake for your lover. when life and results, finances, expectations comes in to play, things become differnt. I do not find any real significant reason to feel problem. I think it is just the way you see it. may be he demands and expects,coz, he loves to more, he might be feeling more possessive or there can always be opinions on issues which are diffrent than you. I would say try to love him and life will become beutiful.
if you keep comparing and changing husbands, i think you will never have family for you.
manoj - I know how you feel, I've been with my loser for 10 years, it doesnt get better only worse. I am going to college trying to get a career so I can leave his loser ass and support my kids on my own. I feel for you & just hang in there when the time is right you'll know what to do.
