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Sent to a friend I'm a 28 year old guy. I'm a virgin. It gets worse. I've never had a girlfriend. Never even properly kissed a woman. I'm shy, socially awkward and unable to have any sort of conversation, all of which makes the problem worse.It's become a viscous circle...If any woman my age were ever interested in me I wouldn't know what to do, which would just make the problem even worse.
How do you get someone to take you seriously in this day and age when you tell them you're a 28 year old virgin.
I hate my life and don't deserve to be taking up precious resources.
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- You donīt tell them youīre a virgin, or the contrary; just donīt mention it. Why should anyone care? The only way to get out of the vicious circle is by breaking it... or getting serious professional help... Good luck.
- i"m a virgin too, and the fact that i haven;t had sex yet, and won;t know how to be completely great at it first time doesn;t make me depressed. Sex will be great, but my sexual experience doesn't define me or you. sex isn't what fulfils people or makes them happy people or gives them meaning in life.
whether you are having sex or not bears no relation to how great you are as a person. i am pretty happy to be sharing precious resources with you. you're not a waste. - hey, theres nothing wrong with that. seriously!!
If your a nice guy, then any awesome chick would definitly want to know you!!
Just be yourself. Talk about things that your interested in and listen to things others people are interested in.
If your comfortable with yourself, you'll be real comfortable around others. Trust me, you'll know what to do!!
- Dood that such a turn on that you're a virgin. You're thinking it's the worst thing probably due to social pressures, of other guys; however There are tons of chicks that probably would love to break in a Virgin. As long as you don't have greasy hair and stenchy breath and teeth and stuff like that. That'd be more of a turn off then you being a virgin to any female i her right mind.
- you could always try nevada. i mean er.. just an idea. if all you wanted was sex.
- You should be proud to be a 28 year old virigin I dont think a 12 year old these days could say they were a virgin. To me that makes you more attractive knowing that I don't have to worry about getting and std or being dumped because I wasn't good at sex. Girls have alot to live up to in guys sex world. I'm only turning 18 and I'm terffified to have sex.
- Man, go for a professional a couple of times. Or several. Will help you ease things up. Trust me, it works.
- I'm 34 and still a virgin. I never had a girlfriend either. Do not think you are alone. Being a virgin is not a crime nor a sin. Some people choose to stay a virgin all their life. We didn't but so what? Screw all the non-virgins! Be proud! Accept the fact that you are a virgin! Whining about it will not help you. Accepting the fact that you will (maybe) be a virgin all your life will only increase your chances of loosing your virginity. Virginity is a virtue!
- nothing to be ashamed of. the right one will come for you...
- You need to get into therapy - right away. There is help out there but you must reach out.
- Same here except I'm 20. It fucking sucks. Will I ever get a gf!!!
- that's pathetic
- Find a woman who is into taking someone's virginity. A lot of women are turned on by it.
- dont tell them (:
x - dude you lie until you get some experience just do it and stop feeling sorry for yourself
- The key is to recognise what you like about yourself. If you can't love yourself, how do you think anyone else will ever love you? FTR, I'm a 22 y/o virgin. Sure it's by choice, but I still know what it's like to feel like everyone else in the world is having sex but you. The trick is, don't let people know you're a virgin unless they ask. In the meantime, read lots of books on sex, especially the bits on how to pleasure a woman. Then, when the wonderful day (or night) comes when you finally have that wonderful moment, you will be so good at what you do she won't even think to ask if you were a virgin. All the best.
- "don't deserve to be taking up precious resources." Said like true nerd! Get yourself out there. Join a team, go bowling. Anything!
- When you find the right person, she won't care. It will be natural. I promise PROMISE you that.
Take it from a 29 year old woman...who is in love with a VERY unexperienced man.
- First off let me start by saying there is somebody for everybody. Being a virgin is an assett whether you are a womn or man. that would make any woman feel good knowing that you have patientce. And that yo svaed yourself just for her.
- Don't worry, theres someone for everyone. Your day will come. And in the end it will all be worth it.
- What are you nuts? Virgins are hot! Just go out one night, get drunk, lose control, and FUCKKKKKKK!
Trust me, it works... - you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of... i know many girls (cute, smart, etc) who would probably welcome a 28-yr old virgin... just be yourself, awkward and all =)
internet dating is usually a good way to meet girls if you are having trouble. - Don't tell them you're a virgin, watch your porn to see how it's done...and fake the confidence...try dating a younger girl... she may not notice the inexperience. ;)
- Im really similer, im 23 though, lost virginity at 21! Ive been with 3 girls total, the most recent being the best experience, i attribute that to the fact i got to know her first -she lived with me- and she was absoulutely gorgeous.
I suggest you go to a brothel and rent a woman for 20 minutes, she will show you what to do and answer any questions you might have, im sure. Its now been a year since ive had sex and im pretty sure im gonna go to a brothel before i find another willing lady. - youre not alone ...
- Don't be silly. The time will come. Just don't go looking for sex. Make friends and you will get results.
- Hey, i am 29 not a virgin but might as well be now i use to be cocky smart to people loud talked allot. anyway i married and had 2 kids girls divorced and now have custody of my 2 girls. I work at a call center now I do not talk to anyone at work except one girl that is like 400 lbs she is nice just a friend. other than her anyone who talks to me or if i talk my face turns bright red this is a embarrassment to me i no longer try to speak to people because of this. I just wanted to tell you that someday you will find someone that cares enough about you to take time to try to get to know you. it is not hard to speak to a girl if u speak to your mother your can speak to a girl just always respect them and don't say nothing mostly just listen because thats what they well anyone wants....
- I am 19 and also in the same position as you!
- Buy a hooker
- Awww
- I think it's adorable.
You'd be surprised at the amount of women who might think that, dont be so scared.
=] - I actually really want to fuck you.
- I know the feeling...
- Dude, just hire a hooker. Don't feel bad. This is taking the "issue" head on. She doesn't even care if you don't know what you're doing. You can even mention you're a virgin if you'd like. I bet you $500 she will get turned on by it. Why? Because YOU'RE A VIRGIN!!! Some women get turned on and will bang a virgin just for being a virgin! And who cares if you last two humps the first time, go back at it again and again until all your semen oozes out that beautiful, creamy pie! Cheers!
- It's tough trying to keep up with society. Why has it become a negative aspect of life to stay a virgin? Sex is a gift that we give to another. Do you just want the "fame" of sleeping with another girl?
Believe in yourself and extend your confidence a little bit. You will do fine. Just try. - it's not all about sex...i know a girl who is 32 happy and a virgin...she is waiting...for a guy that is her age and holds on to the same ideals she does....waiting until marriage...she is also beautiful beyond words...as for the shyness, you just gotta get out there and make a fool of yourself once or twice...honestly, women love a guy that gets out there and isnt exactly smooth as silk but IS genuine...stay strong
- Grow up - whats the worst that could happen to you - rejection?
- i think you should just go do it, get out there. what makes you so undeserving compared to everyone else. just get it over and done with and then you can move on a bit.
- same here, except i'm 29
- That's really sad that you hate your life because of this. Why would you think that being a virgin is such a horrible thing?
- dude relax. just goto a few pubs, throw the odd comment into the bar staff, and then tlk to the person next to you, even if its a bloke, then after u get a few people talking arange to meet them another day etc. then eventfully they will end up being your friends, then when you have friends its alot easier to get a g/f
- If you met the right woman, you could tell her that you want to learn how to have sex and i'm sure she would be very happy to teach you how to make her feel good!
- dude just talk to someone ^^ say hi is all you need to do; start a conversation with something like "hey my cousin has that same shirt and ive always liked it" dude it works. once you start getting the hand of saying the first couple words you'll be alright...and noone will laugh at you for being a virgin; girls will actually admire you for it. gl man ^^
- YOUR NOT ALONE.
- I DO NOT TELL LADIES HOW MANY TIMES i HAVE BEEN LAID BEFOR WE HAVE SEX. WHY WOULD YOU DISCUSS YOUR SEX LIFE?
Hire a prostitute, if necessary, but get laid!
NOW is all we have. - wish i had an answer for you. sadly, i don't. but i feel ya, just keep going. it'll happen for you i know it.
- whoa there soldier. you should never put yourself down! theres nothing wrong with being shy or a virgin even. your still young and need to focus on your good qualities. i think u need to take up a hobby where u meet new people. yes ull feel awkward at first but u need to put yourself in situations u dont feel comfortable in in order to get over the shyness and potentially meet great friends.
try some positive thinking...write down ten things that u like about urself. when u in crowded situations keep tellin urself ppl probly dont even care what ur doing etc..they really dont! you should treat yourself to some new clothes, join a group to start a hobby and start living your life instead of lettin the whole virgin label get you down. talk to your friends and ask them why they think u havent had a gf, sometimes a mates opinion is bang on. till then just enjoy urself- you will appear much more attractive to the opposite sex if your a happy well rounded person. - 6zoacdnxxlkxunvf
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